3 Simple Steps to Attracting More Satisfying Relationships
What are you hoping to get out of the connections you have? Security? Affection? Loyalty? Companionship? Communication? What?
Do you ever stop and think about why you seem to keep getting the same kinds of individuals in your life?
Are you sick and weary of being let down by so-called “love”?
Have you ever been caught off guard by a person who you mistook for a friend?
Do you feel like you’re running out of time to discover the one person you can spend the rest of your life with?
The following are three methods that may assist you in attracting relationships that are more fulfilling to you:
STEP 1:
Create a detailed note of all the features or situations from your previous relationships that you DON’T WANT to encounter again in any future romantic endeavors.
For this task, you have the option of either using the T-toolTM or just taking a clean piece of paper and drawing a giant ‘T’ on it.
Put “I don’t want” in the heading of the column on the left and “I do want” in the heading of the column on the right.
You should talk to your inner self and ask it to remind you of things that happened in the past that you do not want to happen again.
Create a few sentences for each incident that capture the essence of that event and write them down.
STEP 2:
Examine everything that is written on the side that says “I don’t want…” and then ask yourself this question: “If I don’t want this, what do I want?”
One of the primary reasons why we continue to be drawn to the same unsatisfying relationships is that we fail to take advantage of the contrast presented by the unpleasant occurrences in our lives in order to get clarity around what it is that we DO desire.
STEP 3:
Create a screenplay that describes how you WANT your relationships to be and includes the following:
As long as the Law of Attraction only possesses the “DO NOT desire” script, it will only be able to repeat itself according to that script as long as it is in its possession.
The Law of Attraction requires that we provide it with some new material to work with.
The ability to script allows access to all four sections of the brain.
The part of the brain called the left brain, which deals with language and reasoning;
- THE RIGHT BRAIN, which is the part of the brain that comprehends patterns and symbols;
- THE PART OF THE MIDDLE BRAIN THAT IS RESPONSIBLE FOR FEELINGS; AND
- THE PART OF THE BRAIN STEM That Keeps Track of Stimuli From the Outside World
When we create scripts that begin with a line like “If I had my way…” and utilize our imagination about things that make us feel good, we are accessing both the right and left sides of our brains.
When a notion or sensation arrives, we use the left hemisphere of our brain to translate it into words, and then we use the right hemisphere of our brain to depict the concept or feeling.
Writing the scripts requires active participation from the body, which is then registered in the brain stem.
A profound communication is sent out into the cosmos whenever each of the four lobes of the brain is actively engaged.
I always like to wrap up my scripts by saying something along the lines of “And do this in ways that are for my highest benefit as well as the highest good of everyone involved.”
This is a term that assists me in releasing my attachment to the “HOW” of everything that takes place and enables the “Law of Attraction” to bring it about in the most advantageous manner.
Always keep in mind that the Law of Attraction draws to us exactly what we are vibrating.
Consequently, if we want to have more rewarding romantic relationships, we will need to modify the predominant vibration in our bodies so that it is consistent with the kinds of experiences we want to have.
